Not only will it drown out any nerves (and any awkward noises), but it'll also create a vibe like you're actually sneaking away in a crowded party to hookup. It doesn't have to be as slow and romantic as John Legend's "All of Me." Listen to something that makes you feel a little wild and sensual, says Kerner, like something that would make you lose your inhibitions and dance like crazy in a club. If they're wrong, well, use your best judgment.īlast a libido-pumping song. Use your finger to trace a word on your partner's body-like "kiss" or "blowjob"-and have them guess, says Ava Cadell, Ph.D., author of NeuroLoveology: The Power to Mindful Love & Sex. It is possible to make a no-brainer even sexier. You're basically channeling your sexual spirit animal (whether that's Katy Perry or Rihanna), which will help you get into character and mask any insecurity from your everyday personality. Step outside the box and portray a totally new persona whose sexiness you want to emulate-like Nicki Minaj with an awesome neon wig, says psychologist and sex therapist Brandy Engler, Ph.D., author of The Men on My Couch. But we're not talking about dolling up head-to-toe in a French maid uniform. We know, we know, we know: Sexual dress-up is so been-there-done-that. Find the hottest looks for your shape right here. You don't need to break the bank for a pearl thong-just get sexy-wear that's a bit more risqué than your normal tastes. Sure, you look great in a bra and underwear, but wearing something that is totally not you (like bright red lace or a sexy-as-hell corset) will make you feel like you're actually playing into the role of a seductress, says sex therapist Ian Kerner, Ph.D., author of She Comes First. Test out these 10 feel-sexy-right-now moves tonight. But in reality, tiny acts can give you a major confidence boost. "There's a misconception that taking charge has to be something big," says Greer.
Now, we know it can be intimidating to make the leap from tame girl to sex goddess overnight, but a few small tweaks can make you feel wilder and more self-assured in bed. MORE: 6 Ways to Boost Your Bedroom Confidence "The trick is to know your comfort level and then to push it just a little bit-that's all you need." "It's hard to be open with your sexuality-for anybody-because you feel vulnerable to rejection," says sex expert Jane Greer, Ph.D., author of What About Me? Stop Selfishness From Ruining Your Relationship. You might ooze confidence during a work presentation, but it's a totally different ballgame when it comes to sex. Let's face it, sometimes feeling sexy can be hard.
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